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November 30, 2009

Serena and Female Sports

Serena William was recently fined $82,500. for her verbal hostility against a tennis official’s ruling during the U.S. Open this summer, the largest amount ever in tennis history. Williams already paid 10K, but it was determined that she violated a “major offense” rule for “aggravated behavior”. If Williams’ tongue slips again, she could be fined up to $175,000 and barred from the following U.S. Open.

I love tennis too much to ignore this tidbit, as Serena is a great athlete. So let’s rewind back in tennis history and remember how John McEnroe faired in the sportsmanship category – poorly, to say the least. John, as popular as he was for his fast tactics and tremendous footwork, speed and angle on the courts, he was also a pouting, ill-tempered and bad mouthed boy who lived through a several disqualifications and fines. However, his behavior was often over-looked and laughed off, as John was adored by his fans and his violent tantrums was part of the package… How accepting. Can you imagine if Chris Evert or Martina behaved in such fashion? They would never have had a second chance, period.

Although I cannot condone Serena’s behavior and words during the U.S. Open, if the tables were turned and John spewed the same words at a male tennis official, it wouldn’t sound as harsh to the viewers and his punishment would be mild, milder than what’s in store for Serena.

So let’s get one thing clear here… What we are observing is change in female evolution, as competitiveness, aggression and dominance is more pronounced in female sports. However, we have not come to terms with this transition. Sooner than later, we need to recognize these females as human athletes, like male athletes, and not degrade or illegitimatize their athletic prowess because of their gender.

November 5, 2009

Good Bye…

Filed under: Uncategorized — naera @ 9:55 am

Hey Stranger!

It’s been almost 2 weeks, 11 days, since my blog surfaced a new material. My apologies, my daughter’s too.

In short, my truly beloved and faithful Mac laptop died on me two Sundays ago. It involved a 2 ounce glass of milk and 10 year old young lady.

The accident occurred at 10:32 am, without a warning… Which resulted in a 15 seconds of howling, the blaming, positive reinforcement, taking the blame back, ending with hugs and kisses with my daughter. All in a matter of 10 minutes.

My husband tried to resuscitate the Mac with all his might, paper towels flying everywhere as he took the computer apart to pieces – think MacGyver wanna be. But it was too late. At 10:45, it was pronounced Fried…

Did I mention my loyal BFF went everywhere with me for three years? It carried my journals of deepest thoughts and unrealistic fantasies, pictures of my children, design work, a long To Do list, plus two weeks worth of writing for Seedust (that’s 14 entries).

Do you think a typical friend would have the patience to retain all your crap for 3 years? No.

Anything this tragic always put me in mourning for longer than it should, like a few weeks. I’m a Virgo and I hate change, especially when it’s forced upon me.

I have a Mac desktop sitting very neat and pretty on my desk, which is situated next to a big window over-looking the Hudson River. Unfortunately, ‘that’ pretty Mac has never been ergonomically correct for my creative output for reasons some wouldn’t understand.

So here I am, having downgraded to an old PC laptop, which my son occasionally uses to play some caveman game that’s virtually extinct.

Next Tuesday, we bring home the new baby into my life.

Until then…

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